tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200319.post3927476985561220111..comments2023-09-03T06:59:18.014-06:00Comments on danae: HNG'sdanaehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04272665842538045248noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200319.post-62082269592609153342009-02-05T09:07:00.000-07:002009-02-05T09:07:00.000-07:00so i'm doing like HNG and picking out one part of ...so i'm doing like HNG and picking out one part of your post to comment on. An insignificant part. I too remember the first time my husband/owner messaged me and i responded to it. While we dont celebrate it as an anniversary (we have our wedding anniversary for that) I do always remember it. Probably more so than I do our first date. In the world that we met in, that i was so involved in....the day of first communication was more important.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01296558743353138844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200319.post-8840810254303191002008-11-29T14:57:00.000-07:002008-11-29T14:57:00.000-07:00I have a fetlife account that clearly states that ...I have a fetlife account that clearly states that I am a slave and that I am only there to make friends, however some men don't respect this and still send emails that are inapproriate hoping that someday they can be my Master. I just ignore them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200319.post-80043744993921924672008-11-22T15:01:00.000-07:002008-11-22T15:01:00.000-07:00Ugh I resonate with this so much, the amount of si...Ugh I resonate with this so much, the amount of silly one liners I get on there and other sites is insane sometimes and completely ignorant. Those ones do not *read* what you write in a profile but gleam it for something to use as a starting point for a come on. <BR/><BR/>As for the obnoxious man who deemed it wise to send a rough, rude message? ... they get dumped in delete and archive pretty damn fast. Lol I enjoy conversation, I don't enjoy dealing with HNG's ximpyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18327879371849107479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200319.post-72155838331644922252008-11-22T07:43:00.000-07:002008-11-22T07:43:00.000-07:00I have many of the same "limits." My contacts fro...I have many of the same "limits." My contacts from HNG's seem to come in waves. I'll go for periods of time without any at all, and then I'll get bombarded.<BR/><BR/>I don't understand the whole business. I always just figure it is my age. I assume most people are "well-brought-up," so to behave rudely seems to me to be a deliberate choice to break the social code.<BR/><BR/>I ususally greet strangers who "pop up" in my world with some level of caution, but also with some degree of hospitality. I am, these days, surprised when the other side of the conversation turns out to be polite and civilized. That is very, very rare.<BR/><BR/>I have gone through all kinds of theories and strategies about my response to the HNG's of the world, and have decided that it is better for my soul to remain polite and hospitable. I can make the choice to end a conversation very quickly if it comes to that, but I have a hard time being "closed" to all comers based on the fact that there are so many rude critters out there.<BR/><BR/>swanSuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03961893281142538409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200319.post-14287901037668673792008-11-21T07:34:00.000-07:002008-11-21T07:34:00.000-07:00I agree wholeheartedly with your spoken sentiments...I agree wholeheartedly with your spoken sentiments here. On the few sites I did go to, I was overwhelmed. Mostly people said they jumped at the chance because my profile was "real". And I thought why be anything but real? I'm sure there are reasons for anything, but to deny who you are, especially when seeking something is bad form. how do you ever hope to meet genuine people if you yourself aren't genuine. And the rude ones?... well it's irritating to say the least.<BR/><BR/>By the way, I loved "Eat, Pray, Love"; the first week I had it I read it three times. <BR/><BR/>Be well,<BR/>Dominant MuseAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200319.post-10977282549184954572008-11-21T06:58:00.000-07:002008-11-21T06:58:00.000-07:00Isn't strange that in a community of trust, respec...Isn't strange that in a community of trust, respect, and honour that a simple greeting becomes a come-on?<BR/><BR/>While this situation isn't limited to just the fetish community, I always hoped our standards were just a bit higher.Jeff Rowellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07896349703162597269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200319.post-34859262782592471052008-11-21T06:31:00.000-07:002008-11-21T06:31:00.000-07:00"He felt it was because submissive women wanted a ..."He felt it was because submissive women wanted a rough man and the polite message comes off effeminate. Do you think that is true?" <BR/><BR/>Well, I certainly don't agree with that. I mean, maybe for some women that's the reason, but I suspect that the idiots get more responses than the polite ones because the idiots are offensive, and the temptation to point out when someone is being moronic is just overwhelming. So much easier to be nasty to someone than to be nice...a sad comment.Seeker of Wisdomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03286456531491531082noreply@blogger.com