Thursday, June 06, 2013
Different not Deeper
Often in the lifestyle I hear that BDSM relationships are deeper than vanilla relationships. But really I don't believe they are....I don't believe my relationship is deeper than a D/s relationship just because I am M/s. I don't believe we kinky folk are deeper than those in vanilla relationships. What we are - is different. M/s is different from D/s. BDSM is different from vanilla. Master and I might do things different than a couple who is D/s because we are M/s, but doesn't mean we are deeper.
Our relationships are deep because of what we put into them. A relationship can grow into a deep and meaningful one by being compatibility, creating connection, communicating, and knowing oneself - and none those things have nothing to do with D/s or M/s.