Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?
To those outside the lifestyle - not open at all. To those within the lifestyle - depends on how close we feel to them. Recently Master and I have had the pleasure of really getting to know a group of people in our community. We feel comfortable with them so we can be ourselves with them and enjoy things we don't usually allow people to see. It really just depends on the person, how open we are with them.
When I lived in Ohio, everyone I pretty much met - I came out too. But with Master having his own business in a smaller town - it really isn't possible. We still have that fear of being outted. We aren't ashamed of being in the lifestyle, but we also are realistic in knowing people around us might not approve of our lifestyle and that could ruin Master's business and our lives.