Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
The appeal of kink/BDSM is that it is just a part of me. I can look back in all my intimate relationships that I really enjoyed and felt good in - and they all had some kind of power dynamic going on or kinky aspects to them. I am drawn to a certain kind of man that naturally seems to be draw out my submissive/service side.
I enjoy service based relationships because I like pleasing - I am not a people pleaser now as much as I was when I was younger. But I still enjoy pleasing Master and knowing I am enhancing his life by serving him. He doesn't have to worry about clothes being wash or ironed, he doesn't have to worry about cleaning his toilet, he doesn't have to worry about many daily things so he can focus on other things that matter to him such as his business.
I am not sure why I am drawn too it - I kind of stopped trying to figure it out a long time ago. I just am and it fulfills me so that is all that matters.
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