Just a little public service announcement:
Dear beautiful reader,
There is no right way to do this....just because you don't serve like me doesn't make you a failure and just because I don't serve like others doesn't make me a failure in doing it "right." We all have our own way of doing this....make it your own and do what is best for you. Don't try to emulate someone online. Just make it work for the relationship you are in....what feels good to you, what works best for you and that is your way.
peace to you,