Questions of the Day

These are questions from a group on Livejournal....Hell Bent Queer

Friday's Questions
Humiliation/degradation play. Do you engage in it? How have you used it in your scenes? What about it makes it hawt for you... or what about it turns you off?

yes we engage in it. There are so many ways it is used that I can't possibly name them all but being called names or adjectives that less then nice. Being treated like an object or animal. It makes me very hot but it also something that is at times very hard for me with Master. I think it makes me hot because it is stripping all those layers and it often addresses things I have felt at the core of my being.


Thursday's Questions
Pro-Dom/me and Pro-Sub is it different from prostitution? Why or why not? Have you ever been one or utilized their services? If not, have you ever considered it? Does their presence add to, take away from or have no effect on the leather community?

I was an escort and the Pro-doms/subs that I knew while working as an escort hated being associated with the sex industry but yet many of them were engaging sex or sexual acts for money so I am not sure why they thought they weren't part of the sex industry.

I haven't ever utilized a pro-dom/sub. But I did have clients that wanted me to top them and I did bottom with light play with a few clients.

I am not sure that their presence takes away from the leather community but I do believe mainstream America thinks of them when thinking of SM so associates us as immoral or deviant.


Wednesday's Questions
Bruises...love them or leave them? Do you show off bruises (whether you gave them or have them)? Do you hide them and hope no one notices? Do you enjoy touching them later to remember the initial pain? Have you tried different techniques to get different kinds of bruises? Would you consider bruises a fetish for you?

LOVE bruises! I don't go around saying see my bruise...okay sometimes I do. :) But it depends on who it is and where the bruise is at on me. I do remember touching them. I don't bruise easily on my ass so Master often gives me bruises other places because of it....punches in my arm and thighs. I haven't considered bruises as a fetish.

(no question tuesday)

Monday's Questions
What is your favorite kink erotica? Are there certain movies that get you going every time? Certain authors? What about fetish photography? Do you make any of your own erotica? Feel free to share links to fetish sites you enjoy, photos you like, passages from your favorite book

For erotica...I enjoy photography or drawings. I am a visual person. I don't often get into written erotica because so often it feels very romantic or fantasy based and I really like reality. But I do love Laura Antoniou Marketplace Series. It is fantasy based but many real life feelings to me. I lust after Chris Parker in a big way too (character in the books)! (pant pant!)